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11 Signs You're Dating a Jerk
18 Apr It's easy to spot and avoid a guy who is definitely an asshole, but there are plenty of secret, undercover asshole dudes out there, just waiting for the right time to show their true colors. Here, I decode the telltale signs of a guy who seems nice but is actually an emotional land mine just waiting for you to step. Let's face facts: some people are just irredeemable jerks. They're selfish and treat other people like crap, and they're not even sorry about it. If you're in the dating scene, you've most likely run into a guy who fits this bill, and it's in your best interest to avoid getting into a relationship or even talking to him at all. Not sure. Wonder if my boyfriend planned anything for V-Day?” If you have to ask if he has anything planned, then we have a problem here, you might be dating a jerk.
He's rarely interested in your day and doesn't ask about your feelings. If you want something to be discussed, you're the one who has to bring it up because he prioritizes himself first. If this sounds like your guy, don't waste any more of your time! You deserve somebody who wants to be with you and a man who's willing to do what it takes to keep you around.
Reevaluate your relationship and yourself if this all sounds familiar, and consider kicking him to the curb. Lifestyle Here Family Fun. But with it comes living on Champion Trace Golf Go here, a two-story wine cellar, outdoor spa, fitness center, massage room and a guest house.
Starting to feel like that New Years resolution is starting to get away from you? But not all realize they're dating a total jerk until all the signs are laid out right in front of them. Some even stay in bad relationships because they're afraid of not having someone, but being alone is far better than dating a person who doesn't value you.
If you're nodding to these 11 red flags, it's time to let him go. He flakes on you regularly. He doesn't respect the plans you've made and usually has an excuse for not being able to go.
Share Tweet Pin It. Pin It Tweet Share. He calls the shots. He doesn't respect the plans you've made and usually has an excuse for not being able to go.
He doesn't even have the common courtesy to reschedule when it's most convenient for you. Instead, he lets you know last minute if at all that he can't make it and brushes it off like no big deal.
He doesn't need to reply right away, but if he's not returning your messages within 24 hours without good reason, he's just being rude.
You know he's seen it at that point; he's just choosing to push you to the side. And the truth is, if he's really into you, he'd want to talk to you right away.
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He calls the shots. It's rarely about what you want to do and more about him dictating the plans. He doesn't take your interests and noninterests into consideration because he doesn't really care.
11 Signs You're Dating a Jerk
He automatically assumes the position of the alpha and doesn't like it if you disagree with his suggestions. He's unavailable when you need him most and any of your problems seem bothersome to him. When you're upset, it's not even a concern of his, and don't even try to ask for favors. But when the situation is reversed, he expects you to be there for him. He's more into your body than personality. He has no problem showing PDA but would rather make out than have a real conversation.
He loves showing you off to his friends but backs off when it comes to getting serious. It seems like he values your looks more than anything else. His jokes are insulting.
He doesn't understand the click between teasing and being a flat-out jerk, but he doesn't care how he affects others, anyway.
If he puts you down in some way, he doesn't acknowledge where he was wrong and tells you to stop taking it so seriously. You show more effort than he does. You're willing to put work into the relationship, but he gets by with the bare minimum.
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Your attention and thoughtfulness go unnoticed, and he's rarely appreciative of your gestures. The times he does show any reciprocation is usually when he wants something, not out of politeness. His actions speak louder than his words - but not in a good way.
You can't really trust what he says because his actions contradict his promises. He's a lot of talk but doesn't pull through on anything, even on the simplest of things. He never says sorry and doesn't seem to care about anybody else's feelings but his own.
Even if you're clearly upset by something he's done or said, he refuses to show you sympathy. He doesn't take responsibility. He's quick to blame others when he's at fault and always finds an excuse for his behavior. When it comes to taking the heat, he reverts to a child and points his finger at everyone but himself. He doesn't care about your needs. Found the story interesting?
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He never says sorry and doesn't seem to care about anybody else's feelings but his own. There are different kinds of assholes. You might not even know what their standards ARE, but it feels like whatever you do is wrong. Women deserve to date someone who is considerate, morally conscientious, and just plain polite. He has literally zero female friends, because they probably all ran for the hills the second they realized he was a total douchebag.
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