My Husband Looks At Other Girls!!
Taking The First Step
1 May why do married men look at other women? I have a husband who does this and I' m so upset about it. I don't look at other men because I'm happily married with the man I'm with. He tells me I'm beautiful, sexy, bodacious, the whole nine yards, but when we go places he looks at other women, when driving. 23 Dec My husband always said that I don't want him to stop looking – that would mean he was dead. But I think you could ask your hubby to be more discreet-I am assuming that you are saying that you see him looking at other women. Tell him that we are all human-and you still enjoy looking at other men-but you. Do I have reason to feel hurt and upset when I see my husband turn his head and look at other women? He has always been faithful to and affirming of me. I trust him, and he's the last guy I'd characterize as a womanizer. Still, it bothers me to see him react this way when he's out in public. Am I too sensitive about this?.
As women, we sometimes struggle to understand that most men can enjoy noticing the attributes of other women without it having any implications on his relationship with you. Understand that I am making broad generalizations here.
If her body belongs to God then doing so would desecrate it. Well he actually stares at almost all other girls and women. In second part of this three part series, we will look at this problem from a perspective that most Christian women and many Christian men may have never considered.
Many of these men have low libido due to either mental or physical concerns, keep their more lascivious thoughts to themselves, or have deeper issues that get in the way of their sexual freedom.
Whether they like to watch football on a Sunday or go the opera on a Saturday, this baseline in male sexuality tends to be fairly consistent. What we as women have to figure out is what our confidence level allows us to accept in our men. If you struggle with confidence in yourself, have had men cheat on you in the past or were raised to believe that pointing out other women is rude and disrespectful, let your guy know.
Ask him to keep it under wraps when he is around you. Understand that this will not change what he is thinking, but you do have the right to ask that it not be shoved in your face if it makes you uncomfortable.
Why do married men look at other women? - relationship advice
We also have to be able to look at our men and tell whether his wandering eye is one symptom among many that tell you that he is not fully in this relationship. Are you satisfied overall with his participation in the relationship? Has he cheated before?
Are they fantasizing about sexual content when looking. Where your husband is concerned, the issue that needs to be resolved is whether his "turning and looking" represents such a conscious "decision to pursue," or whether it's simply an unconscious "knee-jerk" reaction to a stimulus. You are commenting using your WordPress. Not click it up for fear of looking jealous or stupid?
Does he show you that he loves you? Or does he tend to ignore your needs?
A final note to the Christian men reading this
If you have already noticed signs that he has checked out of the relationship then maybe that glance was more than a glance. He is just noting the objects of interest. Who can spot the woman with the best booty? Games like this keep it all above-board and keep you from feeling like he is keeping secrets.
You have to know what you are or are not comfortable with in your relationship. Take a look at yourself to see if you have any insecurities you may be projecting onto him and be realistic about what kind of relationship you are in.
My Husband Looks At Other Girls!!
And, in the end, know that if this is a good man who truly loves you, then you will always be the woman he notices above all others. You Got The Guy — Yay! Love December 18,